这两天看我朋友在脸书上写着「人的一生中，一定要当一次小三，要当过小三后才会明白爱一个人是多么的凄凉！我们想要的人，并非常常可以得到...」
唉～！这些人是怎么了？Orz..
我在一个被"小三"侵入后的家庭长大.. 我想在幸福家庭中长大的人，谁能真正了解在我这样家庭长大的孩子们，或大人的难处跟辛酸？而且这样苦痛的伤害，精神的煎熬，是延续了多么长久？想过吗？
现在的人，都想「及时行乐」不知道会造成什么样的后果与影响，就模仿这世代的潮流！真是需要神的怜悯！
虽然我的朋友里，有人正是"小三"进行式，虽然我不认同这样的行为，但是我并不厌恶她，也不唾弃她，更不背地恶言，只是不断为她祷告。求神怜悯，她这样行，只因为她还不认识神，我相信她所做的不是出于她自己，乃是撒旦罪的性情行出来而已。
记得听过一个广播节目，访问到金智娟 - 娃娃，她年轻时也曾不小心当了人家的「小三」就正是她写出那首脍炙人口的情歌「飘洋过海来看你」的时候，因为她困在三角的恋情当中，所有一切的情绪都抒发在歌曲里..，但就算再是刻骨铭心的爱情最后还是无疾而终，所以她选择离开。夺人所爱，与人争夺爱，都不是真爱！她经过了一段很难熬的日子，最后，娃娃悔改转向神，她得救了，成为基督徒。过正常的教会生活，现在出来为主做见证。她找到真爱。
想到这，我里面很有感觉的重新拿「希伯来书」13章来读，这是讲到关于实行教会生活的美德！
记得当我传福音给硕班同学时，她笑着对我说：「吼～看妳们教会活动好多啊！这样有时候想作自己想作的事情，想参加自己想去的活动就没时间了耶。等老一点没朋友的时候.. 假如想要有活动，那再去教会找聚会活动就好啦！」(= =" 无言~!)
我想，尚未信主的人，乃因着世界的娱乐，远离神，又因着社交的繁复，爱、情欲、思想的自由而堕落（形成相爱就同居、出轨找小三、未婚就生子、不合就离婚.. 等各种问题）..这些人误会了基督徒！以为是被教条限制的跟被规定要如何如何行，所以很不自由。这是何等的错谬！殊不知，我们基督徒，乃是真自由。
这样说好了，当妳/你从没吃过一样东西，结果到了一个新的地方，吃了那一样东西，发现其实很好吃，也很喜欢吃这样的东西，妳/你是不是觉得有机会还想去吃看看.. 这就是基督徒的教会生活，你一但吃了几次，就深深被吸引了，不是教会外面的定规，乃是里面生命的吸引。基督徒乃是因为有正常教会生活（这不是只有外面的活动.. ㄟ.. 你如果是要找那样的活动，请到各地大小公园.. 或者各大小小区的"老人活动中心"那里，就可以找到了很多活动了哦!），这乃是正常的基督徒聚会，正常的吃喝享受主，才能得蒙保守。^_^
感谢神，保守我一直在教会生活中，才不致被这邪恶世代思想的洪流冲走。
最后愿以分享 希伯来书 - Hebrews 第 13 章作为结语。
召会生活中的美德
六件实行的事 1～7
13:1 弟兄相爱要持久。
Let brotherly love continue.
13:2 不可忘记用爱接待客旅；因为有人藉此不知不觉的款待了天使。
Do not forget hospitality, for through this some, without knowing it, have entertained angels.
13:3 你们要顾念被捆绑的人，好像与他们同受捆绑；也要顾念遭苦害的人，因为自己也在肉身之内。
Remember those who are imprisoned as bound with them, those who are ill treated as being yourselves also likewise treated in body.
13:4 婚姻当在众人中间受尊重，床也不可污秽，因为淫乱和奸淫的人，神必审判。
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
13:5 你们生活为人不可贪爱钱财，要以现有的为足；因为主曾说，「我绝不撇下你，也绝不丢弃你。」
Let your way of life be without the love of money, being satisfied with the things which are at hand; for He Himself has said, "I shall by no means give you up, neither by any means shall I abandon you'';
13:6 所以我们放胆说，「主是帮助我的，我必不惧怕；人能把我怎么样？」
So that being of good courage, we say, "The Lord is my Helper, and I will not fear. What shall man do to me?''
13:7 要记念那些带领你们，对你们讲过神话语的人，要效法他们的信心，留心看他们为人的结局。
Remember the ones leading you, who have spoken to you the word of God; and considering the issue of their manner of life, imitate their faith.
对基督的经历 8～15
13:8 耶稣基督，昨日、今日、直到永远，是一样的。
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today, yes, even forever.
13:9 你们不要被各样怪异的教训带入歧途，因为心靠恩典得坚固，不靠祭物作食物，才是好的；那靠祭物作食物而行的，从来没有得着益处。
Do not be carried away by various strange teachings, for it is good for the heart to be confirmed by grace, not by the food of sacrifices, by which those who walk were not profited.
13:10 我们有一祭坛，其上的祭物，是那些事奉帐幕的人没有权利吃的。
We have an altar from which they who are serving the tabernacle have no right to eat.
13:11 原来祭牲的血，由大祭司为着罪带进至圣所，祭牲的身体，被烧在营外。
For the bodies of those animals whose blood is brought into the Holy of Holies for sin by the high priest are burned up outside the camp.
13:12 所以耶稣为要藉自己的血圣别百姓，也就在城门外受苦。
Therefore also Jesus, that He might sanctify the people through His own blood, suffered outside the gate.
13:13 这样，我们也当出到营外就了祂去，忍受祂所受的凌辱。
Let us therefore go forth unto Him outside the camp, bearing His reproach.
13:14 我们在这里本没有常存的城，乃是寻求那要来的城。
For we do not have here a remaining city, but we seek after the one to come.
13:15 所以我们应当借着耶稣，常常向神献上赞美的祭，这就是承认主名之嘴唇的果子。
Through Him then let us offer up a sacrifice of praise continually to God, that is, the fruit of lips confessing His name.
另外四件必需的事 16～19
13:16 只是不可忘记行善和供输，因为这样的祭物是神所喜悦的。
But do not forget doing good and sharing with others, for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.
13:17 你们要信从那些带领你们的，且要服从；因他们为你们的魂儆醒，好像要交账的人；你们要使他们欢乐的作这事，不至叹息；若叹息，就与你们无益了。
Obey the ones leading you and submit to them, for they watch over your souls as those who will render an account, that they may do this with joy and not groaning; for this would be unprofitable to you.
13:18 请你们为我们祷告，因我们深信自己良心无亏，愿意凡事都行得好。
Pray for us, for we are persuaded that we have a good conscience, desiring in all things to conduct ourselves honorably.
13:19 我更加求你们为我祷告，使我能快些回到你们那里去。
And I exhort you much more to do this that I may be restored to you more quickly.
结语 20～25
13:20 但愿平安的神，就是那凭永约之血，领群羊的大牧人我们的主耶稣，从死人中上来的，
Now the God of peace, He who brought up from the dead our Lord Jesus, the great Shepherd of the sheep, in the blood of an eternal covenant,
13:21 在各样善事上成全你们，好实行祂的旨意；祂是在我们里面，借着耶稣基督，行祂看为可喜悦的事。愿荣耀归与祂，直到永永远远。阿们。
Perfect you in every good work for the doing of His will, doing in us that which is well pleasing in His sight through Jesus Christ; to Him be the glory forever and ever. Amen.
13:22 弟兄们，我恳求你们容纳这劝勉的话，因我不过是简短的写给你们。
Now I beseech you, brothers, bear with the word of this exhortation; for indeed I have written to you in few words.
13:23 你们该知道，我们的弟兄提摩太已经释放了；他若快来，我必同他去见你们。
Know that our brother Timothy has been released, with whom, if he comes soon, I will see you.
13:24 请问带领你们的诸位和众圣徒安。从意大利来的人也问你们安。
Greet all the ones leading you and all the saints. Those from Italy greet you.
13:25 愿恩典与你们众人同在。阿们。
Grace be with you all. Amen.
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